You, not your partner, should decide how far the penis goes into your mouth, the speed of the movement, and all the other little elements involved. Most of all, you need to be in charge during a blow job, unless you decide to get all 50 Shades of Throat Fuckery with your boo-but this is not a game I’d recommend for you yet. Anything that causes a dry mouth (including pot!) is likely to be an impediment. Have some water handy it can also help to slick up the cock with lube. This is easier to manage than trying to breathe out as the penis comes in, blocking the air.įinally, if your throat is at all dry, the friction of the penis-throat contact will be another gag trigger. When you breathe in, let the penis in control how far it enters you, especially at first, to give the gag reflex time to subside. One way to work with this tension is via deep breathing it relaxes you and opens your throat at the same time. Second, tension in your throat can lead to gagging. If you have gag reflex problems, never give a blow job with a partner kneeling over you-it’s just too hard to relax. Pay attention to the curve angle and try to match your throat accordingly. Kneeling in front of someone or between their legs mismatches this curve unless your person doesn’t have much of one, curves down instead of up, or is only semi-erect. But often when we give a blow job it’s face-to-dick, and the curves do not match up. If you want to add the fanfare that used to make you gag, here are a few technique tips.įirst, note that most penises curve, and your throat curves, too. If your person stops thrusting as if your mouth was interchangeable with a vagina or other orifice, you can take your time, lavish that part with attention, add more sensation via hand stroking, and give a stellar blow job. The most sensitive part of a penis is the head, especially around the coronal ridge. Instead, think about a blow job as more than just trying to get a dick as far down your throat as possible. I wouldn’t recommend numbing spray during sex and am not even sure this would do much good, since it’s not just the surface mucosa that’s responsible for gagging, and the spray wouldn’t affect the musculature below.
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